The Proper

Disastrous they can be the consequences of the belief in the fullness, in the suppression of the structural puncture. Parents who try of all the forms to exempt the children of the castration finish for sending them an atrocious suffering to it, for the failure perceived ahead of the inevitable lack. The resource to the drug appears as attempt to attenuate the suffering tax for the lack, for the constatao of being a common citizen, that could not be exempted of the castration, possibility the one that the citizen many times is taken to believe for the superprotection of the parents, for offers before the necessity, common behavior between parents of drug addicts, anorxicas and carriers of diverse riots of personality. It is undisputed fact that the effect of the drug is, at a first moment, pleasant, or it would not have demand for its use. The attenuation of the tensions, the descontrao, the desinibio, the immediate joy and momentnea suppression of the suffering can be seductive effect. It fits us, however to stand out that the great imperfection in this experience is inertia the one that the citizen is lead. The social bow in addition is inevitable and the malaise finishes for if restoring of overwhelming form, with the body being relegated to a condition of absolute silence and the serious comprometimento of the identity practically being inevitable.

The citizen is extinguished, its speech is disconnected and the metaphor possibility inexists. This picture is evidenced when coming across with patients who if present as ' ' drogados' ' , adjective that usually suppresses the proper name in the initial presentation, therefore was as soon as nominated them to the society. This same society, said modern, is marked by the decline of the paternal function, in way that the limits are flexibilizados. The young, for its bold nature, of course searchs to know the extremities bordering; in this manner, the drug can be a way covered in search of this threshold, that finishes not being perceived in time skillful, therefore nobody perceives the accurate moment where it is if becoming a dependent of these substances.

Preliminary Patient

In the chapter the eight explana author on some practical questions, as of that the how much lesser one our intervention in the choice and the organization of what we speak, in such a way plus this internal logic will be able taking in to say them unexpected things for we ourselves, to discover something that was in our thoughts without we knew. Generally when we try to take care of our speech very that we can commit a revealing lapse. The experience of Calligaris (2008) sample that almost always finishes being led to speak on things that it did not foresee during the session. Complete when it writes ' ' of any form, the words always will take its patient for lands imprevistas' ' (p.107). On setting, when and as to ask for to the patient who lies down in div or that he continues seated its front. Calligaris (2008) says that the decision can depend simply on a comfort question, its and of its patient. I think that it is not a rule, each one works in the way that it agrees to it.

The author continues displaying that patients exist who do not aguentam the idea of speaking without seeing the face of who listening, also have those contrary patients, who do not aguentam to find the look of its therapist. concludes that setting does not go to cure nobody, and its intention is to allow that the patient if engages in the cure, that is, setting not is condition nor guarantee you are welcome. An analysis or a therapy happens for the changed words and the relations that they organize. In the preliminary interviews it is possible if to place two questions during the first meeting with the patient: if to ask if in this in case that it could be of some aid; to ask for to the patient what it waits of the therapy.